As more golf courses cautiously contemplate opening (with social distancing and other vital considerations top-of-mind), many of us will have a chance to socialize again.
It will be the first time many of us will have the chance to spend time with friends and business colleagues in weeks. It will also be our first game after a long winter layoff.
I’ve found that a golfer’s behavior can create a more lasting impression than their score. Experience has shown me that way others behave on a golf course is a good indication of what they’ll be like to deal with in business and in pleasure.
Here are five different golf personality types you may encounter, wherever you choose to play.
Perfectionists
Perfectionists focus only on theirgame. They have little interest in others’ play and are even oblivious to great shots if they aren’t their own. Blaming greens, traps, water and general course conditions for errors, they can be testy or even temperamental.
This type of person generally likes to face the world alone, thinking that no one will be able to accomplish anything as well as they can. Most people steer clear of them because they don’t want to have to deal with the constant ringing of negativity.
Social Convenors
The Social Convenors are always more focused on building camaraderie than actually playing the game. Regardless of their ability, they like to take on a coaching role, and are always watching to ensure everyone is playing well together.
While at first this personality type seems fine on a golf course, you will find yourself constantly straining to listen for the value in what they are saying rather than having a meaningful dialogue about business – or anything else.
Networkers
Networkers need to see your bio before the first ball is struck, and want to know who does what for a living and whether they are business prospects. They drop more names than penalty balls during a bad round, whether you seem impressed or not.
This group are generally people pleasers, which can become overwhelming as they constantly seek your approval.
Talkers
This one is pretty self-explanatory. Incessant chatter may be accompanied by persistent jokes and laughter, which may increase other players’ suffering.
Non-stop talking can be the result of nerves. When dealing with this personality type, keep things low-key for a while to make them comfortable. Once they are comfortable, the chatter will hopefully lessen.
Happy Golfers
Enjoying the game, foursome and the course, happy golfers take the good with the bad. They acknowledge other golfers’ good shots and add to the round.
Keeping yourself in check while strictly following the new golf health protocols can mean the difference between a memorable social or business event and a failed one.
